Building meaningful relationships leads to an amazing life!​

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Welcome to Really Knot

Relationship coaching tailored to empower women in building stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling connections.

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Discover Innate Relational Purpose

Understanding your unique role and intentions in relationships by reflecting on personal values, strengths, and emotional needs. This involves uncovering the “why” behind your relationships and aligning them with your true self.

02.

Develop Personal Relationship Principles

Establishing clear, guiding values and boundaries for how you interact with others. These principles help maintain integrity, ensure mutual respect, and create a foundation for healthy and meaningful relationships.

03.

Discover Your True Authentic Love

Expressing love in a genuine, selfless, and empathetic way, rooted in honesty and compassion. Authentic love means valuing the other person for who they are while staying true to your own identity and intentions.

Supporting women to a healthier and more meaningful relationship .

Relationship Readiness

Emotional, mental, and behavioral preparedness to engage in a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

Marriage Management

Ongoing process of nurturing and maintaining a healthy, balanced, and fulfilling marital relationship.

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About Me

The “Love Strategist”

A proud native of Washington, D.C., Shakita is a mother to two phenomenal men, dedicated public service administrator, an accomplished author, and a Harvard-certified expert in Organizational Leadership. As a Certified Coach and Life Strategist, Shakita’s story includes two weddings and one marriage (to the same man), her phenomenal sons (her best decisions ever), and navigating life after eight marriage proposals, she specializes in guiding women through marriage readiness and marriage management, helping them build the skills, mindset, and faith foundation needed to thrive as wives and partners.


“Live Spiritually. Love Strategically. Build Lovingly.”

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Happy Clients

Discover glowing testimonials from real clients who’ve experienced the joy of our Really Knot services. Their words inspire us, and their satisfaction drives all that we do.

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“Working with Coach Shakita was a life-changing experience. As a single woman, I was feeling stuck and unsure about how to approach dating with purpose. She helped me uncover my true values, build confidence, and break old patterns that weren’t serving me. Through her guidance, I learned how to communicate authentically and recognize what a healthy, loving relationship looks like. Not long after, I met my husband—someone who truly aligns with my vision for love and partnership. I am forever grateful for her and the role she played in helping me find my happily ever after!”
Angela
Really Knot Coaching transformed my approach to relationships. I felt safe opening up about unhealthy patterns, and Coach Shakita helped me break them while building healthier habits. Now, I’m in a thriving, respectful relationship. I highly recommend this program to anyone serious about their future in love!”
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Latest Blog Posts​

This blog is dedicated to fostering self-awareness, authentic communication, and deeper connections with others. Whether you’re seeking to strengthen personal relationships, or cultivate a stronger sense of self, you’ll find insights, strategies, and inspiration to guide your journey.

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Together let’s uncovers truth and address challenges with the purpose of deeper intimacy, rekindling passion, and creating a partnership that thrives.

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